LOVE IN PARENTING

INTRODUCTION:

Love is a sweet emotion of ourselves. We can give love to somebody when we become love. self-love is the key to opening the lock for others’ love. love is not attachment, it’s liberation.

When you are loving towards anybody, give them freedom, free them from possessiveness. In any relationship, love is the base of bonding

The mother-child relationship is the best example of deep true love. It started from the womb when one has even not known others physically. It is a pure soul-love, at least it should be like that. It is a way of unconditional love.

UNCONDITIONAL LOVE:

Unconditional love means there is no expectation, no desire, only care, and love.

It is not possible to express love always in anything or anyone in a constant manner. It may fluctuate sometimes but at least try to maintain your respect in any relationship, take care of them instead. Respect every person, value their soul from your deep core whatever the relationship is. Don’t think that your child is smaller than you by age, so they don’t deserve respect. Everybody is individual, children need your supervision until they are mature enough to align with the outside environment but do it in a respectful manner.

Develop kindness in your nature, and be compassionate in every situation. Do not judge, compare, or criticize people or the environment. Be passionate about life and encourage everyone to do so.

HOW TO ACHIEVE LOVE IN YOUR PARENTING JOURNEY:

You can achieve love, kindness, and calmness only when you are in peace. So maintain your happiness first, and maintain your inner silence by doing meditation every day at least for 15 mins before sleep. Start your day by journal writing, you can start with a gratitude journal or a self-love journal. It is easily available in any book store or online shop nowadays. you can buy it or you can start just in your notebook also. Use affirmation sentences to increase your potency in life.

Don’t think by brain always, the logical part of our brain will give decisions in the logical matter only, but when you are dealing with your personal life, listen only to your inner voice.

Before taking any decision in life, focus on your deep core, take a deep breath, then follow what your heart says.

Listen to good music when you feel irritative or aggressive. Instrumental music, flute music, and any nature sound will work fine to feel a calm mind.

Try meditation, there is no need to follow some specific long-time meditation always, whenever you get the time you just seat in a quiet place, visualize your thought flow, catch the good ones and let go of the negative ones. write affirmation about the good thought coming into your mind.

VISUALISE → MINDSET → AFFIRM = MEDITATION

You will find your inner voice within a few days. Let go of your little voices from your head. Be calm and patient in every situation.

Never suppress your emotion, allow it to flow, just do not attach to it, and suffer always before you let go of anything to stop the repetition of that event. learn the learning unlearn the mistakes. It is the best process to be in the present and always go with the flow.

IMPORTANCE OF LOVE IN PARENTING:

When you are in love with yourself, you will always spread love to your children. Help them to grow in a lovely environment with your love and be their love for a better future with them. Practice it and implement it in your daily routine and make your parenting journey full of sweet emotions and hapiness. Be mindful and soulful in your nature. Live a positive life.

THANKS GIVING NOTE:  Love and gratitude to all of you who are reading this post. I am grateful to my all mentors, family, and myself for giving me support to be on this journey.